The Joan Zone
Writer, Speaker, Friend

Apr
23

My father-in-law gives me a ton of lectures about how impolite it is to call people stupid. As much as I respect my father-in-law, sometimes in situations when my mouth hangs agape in frustrated confusion, the word stupid is my weapon of choice. Such is the case regarding a Tennessee school district’s textbook controversy.

According to a Fox News report, Williamson County, outside of Nashville, selected “The Cultural Landscape: An Introduction to Human Geography” as a textbook for an advanced placement (AP) class. The book suggests students ponder the following question. “If a Palestinian suicide bomber kills several dozen Israeli teenagers in a Jerusalem restaurant, is that an act of terrorism or wartime retaliation against Israeli government policies and army actions?”

I read the question twice but failed to find a problem with it. All I saw was an opportunity for students to debate an important issue with as much modern day relevance as historical. I’m a huge fan of debate. I believe we only grow and learn when we are able to listen and consider the views of another while defending our own. At this point in the article I’m thinking the parents just need to chill. Then the Director of Schools, Mike Looney spoke. “No one else has complained”. Not only is that one of my most despised statements but it is also a pretty stupid defense. Look around you. If no one ever dared to color outside the lines or raise questions where there had been none before, we would still be peddling around in Flintstone cars and marveling over the wonder of fire.

Some parents find the sentence is anti-Semitic but Looney maintains they are taking it out of context. Okay, lets see how that holds up.  The entire paragraph reads, “Distinguishing terrorism from other acts of political violence can be difficult. For example, if a Palestinian suicide bomber kills several dozen Israeli teenagers in a Jerusalem restaurant, is that an act of terrorism or wartime retaliation against Israeli government policies and army actions? Competing arguments are made: Israel’s sympathizers denounce the act as a terrorist threat to the country’s existence, whereas advocates of the Palestinian cause argue that long-standing injustices and Israeli army attacks on ordinary Palestinian civilians provoked the act.” Now, let’s break it down.

Sentence one reads, “Distinguishing terrorism from other acts of political violence can be difficult.” Um….no not really. Political, medical, global whatever the venue, anytime violence is used to try to force someone to agree with you or at least make them afraid to disagree, is terrorism. I didn’t need an AP class to figure that out.

In a futile attempt at clarity the paragraph continues. “For example, if a Palestinian suicide bomber kills several dozen Israeli teenagers in a Jerusalem restaurant, is that an act of terrorism or wartime retaliation against Israeli government policies and army actions?” So, as long as it’s considered retaliation it’s acceptable? Well, that’s just what we need to teach in high school.   Lets go into the place were far too many use bulling as justification for mass murder and have them ponder the merits of murdering teenagers in retaliation. Yea, THAT’S a good idea.

The paragraph closes with, “Competing arguments are made: Israel’s sympathizers denounce the act as a terrorist threat to the country’s existence, whereas advocates of the Palestinian cause argue that long-standing injustices and Israeli army attacks on ordinary Palestinian civilians provoked the act.”  Sooooo, depending on your point of view terrorism is acceptable? Seriously? That’s what we want to put out there? Good Lord no wonder America is dangling at the bottom of the educational chain.

Ironically, the entire paragraph is a great deal more worrisome than the single sentence. Even more worrisome is the fact Looney didn’t get that. The last thing we should EVER be doing is teaching our kids to question the motives of terrorism. They need to be learning ways to cope with pressure and differing views while predicting and avoiding violent situations. The father who shoots the man who murdered his daughter is still a murderer, regardless of how “justified” it may seem.

I am dumbfounded that anyone would even remotely consider terrorism acceptable regardless of the reason. If we allow our students to even consider terrorism in any form, we are flinging the door wide open to violence and putting a bulls-eye on all of us. Because whether we acknowledge it or not, there are hundreds of thousands who consider themselves at war with America everyday.

http://radio.foxnews.com/toddstarnes/top-stories/parents-call-textbook-anti-semitic.html

 

 

Apr
15

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Ok, riddle me this – KY now requires a urine test for any controlled substance. That not only is pain medication but also drugs to make you sleep, calm anxiety, stop a cough and prevent diarreah. Yep, that last one is legit. Insurance companies won’t pay for the tests because they’re not medically necessary. That means patients with real health concerns are paying $500 to pee in a little plastic cup in order to get the meds they need. How is that EVER going to work?

At one time I sort of liked our Governor, Steve Beshear, but lately it’s just one bone-head move after another. He has absolutely got to be the worst thing to happen to healthcare in KY. It is quite shocking how out of touch with the real world he is. His plans are so full of holes I’m wondering if he suffers from mad cow disease.

First, he decided it would be a great idea to scale down Obamacare and bring it to KY while the rest of the country debated the merits of the president’s plan. That resulted in 3 new MCO’s (managed care organizations) being brought in to manage our medicaid system.

It appeared to be an unwritten rule that any special needs child should have the MCO KY Spirit. Of the 3 MCO’s, KY Spirit had the highest out of pocket expenses for patients. Yeah, that makes sense. Lets give the people that are poor and have the greatest medical needs the most expensive plan. I’m thinking the fool that thought that was a good idea was partaking of another type of KY spirit.

Coventry Cares was also among the 3 MCO’s selected. Those guys pay for nothing. Seriously. They don’t even pay for antibiotic ear drops. EAR DROPS, people! They are shockingly ignorant about basic medical care and billing. Trust me, with over 10 years in medical billing, Coventry Cares is the most uninformed company it has ever been my misfortune to deal with. These are the people that determined my 13 year-old son with a vocabulary of about 5 words no longer needed speech therapy. That’s okay, because it only took me 5 words to tell them what I thought about their decision.

My favorite MCO (and by favorite I mean the worst) is Wellcare. Those guys were under federal indictment of medicaid fraud when Beshear named them as an MCO. Perhaps, Governor Beshear was indulging in a bit of KY spirit himself when he made that decision. I was certain that was the dumbest move he could make. But……turns out I was wrong. 

Even for a politician Beshear’s actions are ridiculously stupid. All I’ve got to say is that it if Beshear ever gambles away his money, develops a major health issue, is required to rely upon one of his selected MCO’s for his care and has to pee in a cup every other Thursday just to get his meds, I will be kicked back, taking it all in with a big glass of KY Spirit.   

Mar
30

Reblogged from P3 - Parenting To The 3rd Power:

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What an honor to have these amazing people be a part of my life.

P3 is a support group I started for parents of special needs kids. This is a short music video of our Easter event.
Mar
20

Reblogged from Stand Up Clark County:

After watching the board meeting online my single thought is one of utter sadness. Adults behaving poorly with other adults is bad enough but to do so in front of kids is worse. We can reveiw all the numbers we want, implement the greatest curriculum and build schools made of gold but until we respect one another we will never succeed.

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This post relates to specific people in my community but reflects a problem rippling across our nation. America's public schools are in crisis but they can be saved - if we dare..
Jul
31

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I am not very proud of this.

 

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I’m teaching one little special needs boy do I need all this? I’m aware that the answer is likely no but before I finished typing the question my head was already rejecting the notion of trashing any of it. Weird, I know. What’s worse is this is the small container. I have a much bigger container. Oh, wait here’s something you probably need to know. These are mostly word cards and DJ can’t speak. Yep, that’s right. I have thousands of word cards for a child that can’t say any of them. If he could speak, would I have more or less of these cards?  Hmmm. Not sure. I can be hard to predict.

What I do know is that I have multiple copies of many of the cards. That is proof of my significant disability of being chronically and sometimes even willfully unorganized. If I’m looking for something and don’t find it in the entire 13 seconds I have dedicated to hunting it, I just make another one. Sometimes that may happen more than once. But don’t tell my husband. He thinks I kicked that habit years ago. Pffft, He really should know better. Thinking about it now, I might actually judge him a little for not knowing. Anyway…..

What do I do with all these cards? Well, right now I’m wondering if I lay them out on my lawn if they could be read from the air. And if they can, what kind of crazy message could I send that would totally freak-out the military helicopters flying over? Now, before you go judging me I’m not under military surveillance. I live close to a base that repairs helicopters. 

When I’m not contemplating a military incident with the cards DJ uses them to answer questions. For a long time it was his only means of expressing himself. Though he tried to confuse me I knew what he really meant when he picked up the picture of the happy boy and flung it at me. That was a literal case of actions speaking louder than words. For a non-verbal child he sure can awfully loud. Kinda like his mother. (sigh)

Oh, well as much fun as it’s been sharing my rambling musings about nothing I really should get back to work. I’ve got a long night of card sorting ahead of me and it makes me

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Jul
23

Have you wondered where I’ve been? No. Well, why not? You did hear about all the books. I could have been buried beneath them in bookshelf coffin. It’s weird that I’m now thinking I might like to be buried in bookshelf coffin?

I have made a little progress. I like putting the things on the wall because it keeps me from looking down at the mess at feet. I must admit though, I’ve spent far too much time putting things in one container only to transfer them to another. Sometimes I move from one container, to another and another before going right back to the first one. To help me cope with the frustration of that useless activity I made it into a drinking game. Each time I changed containers I took a shot of whiskey. No, that’s not true. Carrie Underwood describes me perfect. I need a “fruity little drink cause (I) can’t shoot whiskey”.

I think it’s this whole rambling thing I’ve got going on that keeps me container hopping. I’ve got to focus. Hey, I’ve got a book for that! If I’m not back for day 4 you’ll know my wish for a bookshelf coffin has been granted.Image

May
19

Reblogged from My Crazy Blessed Life!:

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Sooooo... I have a three-year-old little girl who is full of drama.  Probably not the only one in history, but one of my current dilemmas.  When time out time comes for bad behaviour I find myself with a little girl on the bottom step screaming, kicking walls and not able to even calm down enough to learn her lesson.  This was getting worse and worse until I told my husband, "there has to be a better way, I'm going to research this."  So I went online and read other mom's advice, dr's advice, psychologist's advice, etc. 

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Discovered a new blog today "My Crazy Blessed Life". I loved this post so I wanted to share.
May
13

 

 

 

Fighting For The Rights Of The Little People

 

My local community is in an educational crisis. We are being forced by the Kentucky Department of Education to adhere to a facilities plan we have vehemently opposed from the beginning. It is the epitome of taxation without representation and we need your help to save our kids. Please read this article and cast your comments and/or recommendations regarding it. If it is happening here it may easily happen where you are. You can prevent that by joining in our fight, which may originate from our town but will resonate to yours.

 

 

May
05
Reese Witherspoon at the 83rd Academy Awards

Reese Witherspoon at the 83rd Academy Awards (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Like many people I was surprised to learn Reese Witherspoon had been arrested. The media has been salivating all over the incident, repeatedly reported she asked the police officer, “Do you know my name?” Obviously, the sound bite was intended to paint Reese as a prima donna  trying to pull celebrity rank. I finally go around to watching the officer’s dash cam video and it was not what I expected.

She was absolutely wrong in disobeying the cop’s orders to stay in her vehicle.  But I don’t think she got out of the car to engage the officer because she has a superiority complex. I think she was simply ignorant of the law. She states several times that she is an American citizen and can say whatever she wants. She is not alone in that assumption. A  great deal of people believe that they can say anything and be protected by our free speech right.

She is obviously upset but she isn’t yelling at the officer. She isn’t belligerent or resisting arrest. In fact, she responds with, “yes, sir” several times. And when she says, “Do you know my name?” and “this will be on the national news” I don’t hear arrogance. Taking the remarks in context, considering the tone in which they were spoken and the fact that she was obeying his commands at that point gave me the impression that she thought she was right and was trying to keep the officer from being embarrassed by national attention.

Overall, the video reveals to me someone whose inhibitions were lowered by alcohol. That coupled with her erroneous belief that as an American she can say whatever she wants on an “American sidewalk”. All the hoopla is just that – hoopla. But it does shed light on the fact that though we have free speech sometimes other laws cancel that out. We should all be well-versed in our rights, how to employ them and what trumps them.

The lesson here is that when a police officer instructs us to do something, whether we are right or not, the best thing we can do is obey. If the officer is wrong we can take that up through the court system, but in the midst of the incident we’d do well to heed law enforcement’s instructions.

Reese has apologized and accepted full responsibility for her actions. It is now up to us to extend to her a little grace. There is not one of us who, at some point, have behaved in a manner we wish we hadn’t. We’ve embarrassed ourselves, acted out of character and endured humiliation. We know that bone-deep regret of realizing far too late how absolutely wrong we were. And for most of us we will find ourselves in this predicament on more than one occasion. Which is why I strive to live by the motto that if we ever hope to receive forgiveness and grace we must first give it. I prefer to dismiss the issue in order to stockpile all the grace and forgiveness I will likely need in the future. Learn and grow Reese, because by doing so you take the power from the mistake and turn it into a message.

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